
That's right, the title really does say 'Stupid Man Tricks and Other Reasons We Can't Live With Out Them'. I Love my husband and I really could not live with out him - he is my rock. He keeps me grounded and is a huge source of encouragement just when I need it most. He is an awesome father who leads by example and love for the Lord. However, there are times I wonder what planet he came from, or if he was raised by a troop of monkeys.
For example, this picture was taken at a friends wedding two years ago. Adam looks so sweet in this picture doesn't he? There is absolutely no hint of how moments before, while I was posing all happy and smiling, he was nearly sticking his tongue in my ear just as the flash went off. Praise the Lord for digital cameras! I deleted it and we took this picture. Much nicer, in my opinion, but I can't help but laugh every time I see it remembering the moment. I was so mad - at the time, but now I look at this picture and think 'only Adam' and I smile because I know there are times he just CAN'T help himself.
I like to call those times Stupid Man Tricks. Like, when he says something with out fully thinking it through and only after it is out he realizes just how much of his foot he propelled into his mouth. Sure we have ALL done that, but it seems to happen more often when Adam is talking to me. Actually, it just happened the other day. I asked him what exercise I could do to help tone my lower abs. His response was "It doesn't matter how many sit-ups you do; you need to shed a layer of fat first." Quickly followed by "That was so not what I meant to say!" And I know it wasn't what he meant to say. I gave him a hard time about it, but I wasn't hurt or upset because I KNOW that he would never hurt me on purpose and because it really was funny.
The Stupid Man Tricks can also have an effect on the children. In this instance it is usually Adam letting the boys do something I never would in a million years. Such as, the time he let Elijah take his training wheels off at 4. When Elijah crashed hard on the gravel he got up screaming he was never going to ride a bike again. Needless to say, he was back on the following week and learned to ride with just two wheels(all be it shaky and with Adam running close beside) by the end of fall. Now at 6 he is an old pro!
Stupid Man Tricks lurk in every corner of my house and jump out sometimes at the worst possible moments, but without them Adam would not be Adam and I would not love him so much! Our family would also never have as much fun as we do and my boys would not be the boys that they are. With out Adam and his Stupid Man Tricks, I would be clueless on how to raise my boys. I also would like to point out that Stupid Man Tricks help me to not be so prissy.
I don't have to understand why my husband needs to habitually do things that would never cross my mind; I just know I love that we are totally different in many areas. Isn't Christ wonderful? He made men and women different not so we would fight and try to change one another, but so we could grow and learn from our dissimilarities. So, how about you? Do you have your own Stupid Man Trick story?